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Life’s Whispers: How to be Your Own Wise Guru

October 5, 2017 By Cheryl Melody Baskin

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Life's Whispers: How to be Your Own Wise Guru

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Do you ever struggle to find a purpose in your life, have difficulty shedding light on a challenging situation, or feel stuck in visualizing your next steps?   Many times in my life, I have been paralyzed emotionally, inflexible, and in my turtle shell.

Until I am not! Until I literally open my arms to the unknown mystical magic of the world, trusting that the answers to life's puzzle are within me.  I embrace the spirit of trust, expansion, self-belief and openness.

There are helpful inner growth tools that help to create this shift, allowing our body, mind and spirit to hear our highest wisdoms guiding us.  One of the tools is learning to be in the present:  Breathe in and out slowly and deeply, and notice this moment within this breath.  Little children are IN the moment naturally.  We need to learn from their innocence.  It only takes a matter of seconds to shift. Corral yourself into the NOW.

look withinThen...look up.  Look up at the unlimited expanse of the sky, and breathe it in.  Know that you contain this same unlimited potential!

Being in the present, inviting less to-do's and more silence, changing your posture, looking upwards, and even forcing a smile...will provide us with a sense of increased joy.  Shifting into these new behaviors helps us to set up the right internal environment to hear our purpose, our answers, and our map for how we could create a more positive life of more moments of joy, inner peace, love and compassion.

In 1995, I was happily teaching music, movement and imagination to babies through age 5.  Suddenly, the Federal building in Oklahoma City was bombed.  Everyone's life changed.   I wanted to help, but didn't know how.  Suddenly, out of nowhere, a professor at the University of Oklahoma called me.  I did not know her.  She said she owned my albums, used them professionally and personally, and then asked if I could I come out to the University and do a peace, hope and healing concert.  The "Woody Allen" neurotic, insecure, inflexible and fearful side of me said:  "Why is she calling me? I am just a music teacher for kids, and I have never done a concert nationally before."

However, the part of me that listens to the whispers and is willing to expand my definition of myself found myself saying...YES!  Before I knew it, there I was on the amphitheater stage with deeply grieving people in front of me.  Although most of my being trusted that I would be guided to know what to do, I was still in doubt-actually terrified-even minutes before I began.

Suddenly, a beautiful butterfly flew onto my microphone, flew around me and landed on my left shoulder.  I sensed that this was yet another whisper and sign, telling me that I was right where I was supposed to be, doing what I was supposed to be doing.  I was living my new purpose, and I recognized the whispers and signs.

From that moment on, I knew that one of my spiritual gifts was to connect people with people through my open heart and healing music.  If I hadn't been a person who was open to listening to the whispers and signs, I would not have experienced this moment, write a book, find the love of my life, meet people in the most synchronistic manner, and let go into prayer and surrender personal situations in which I had no control.

Create an inner spaciousness, open yourself up to the unlimited Mystery and magic of our universe, and notice the signs and whispers gently guiding you along your way. The answers are all inside of us, and we all can be our own Guru of wisdom, light and love. Falsified medications flood North American and European markets

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30-Second Meditation Quickie

May 3, 2016 By Cheryl Melody Baskin

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sunrise on ocean with seagullsDo you feel tense, anxious, worried, or consumed with your to-do list? Do you need to take time out and re-group, but think it will take too long, and now you are worried about getting an "F" in relaxation? What if I told you that I have found an easy exercise that takes only 30-60 seconds in order for me to feel refreshed and renewed? I am now feeling centered and sane again!

Although formal Mindfulness Meditation is definitely beneficial, perhaps you have stayed away from the practice because you've heard that you should sit for at least 30 minutes with your spine straight, palms out, noticing your thoughts, letting go of them like passing clouds, creating a word(s) or mantra to focus on while you notice the rising and falling of your in and out breaths. If you are able to meditate like this, I applaud you and I aim for it myself.

Sometimes, however, I think many of us are driven away from meditating because it feels too hard and time-consuming, and we are too edgy to think that we now have to take time away from our to-do list and spend 30 minutes in a disciplined process.

As someone who likes immediate gratification, here's what I do to renew in less than 60 seconds: I close my eyes and just listen to life's symphony. For 30-60 seconds, I stop the world and bring my attention to all the sounds surrounding me. Life is a varied symphony of sounds. Listening and truly hearing the sounds around us brings us to something wonderful: It brings us into the present moment. The NOW moment. Breathing in the now.

As the comedic pianist, Victor Borge, said: "Tap two stones together three times...and you have a waltz!" When I was a young, I was innately in-tune with life's symphony. I would clink the glasses with my spoon at the kitchen table, (and get yelled at), tap stones of various sizes and shapes together and be interested in the different timbres, listen to the different pitches of the glorious birds, (still do), notice the differences in people's footsteps, or patterns and tones in speaking, and be delighted by comparing unique sounds of laughter.

Stopping the world for a minute and listening to the sounds helps us to refocus and get out of our own way. It can help us heal, re-group and renew. It can help us breathe again. It works for me, and I'd love to hear from you as to how it works for you. 30 seconds. That's all we need to get back to the core of our self, our breath, our NOW moment. Do it every now and then during your day, and let me know if it helps.

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